Our Mess is our Mirror

Introduction 

Life is never all smooth sailing. Whatever setbacks you experience can be turned around and used to reflect your higher calling and purpose back to you. There is a wider purpose at play. Your mess and that you were able to emerge from it is a mirror. Transformation is never easy or pretty, but it is the outcome that makes it worth the wait. The trials and tribulations that we face are often cocoon moments that, although uncomfortable, dark and extremely lonesome at times, are actually growing us into something so glorious and magnificent that not even we ourselves will be able to witness the effect it will have on the world.

Picking Up New Vibrations 

Every person radiates what we call a frequency energy, or a ‘vibe’. Your frequency is a field of energy that you emit into space. We can pick up on a person’s vibes non-verbally or even without seeing their facial expressions. Others will be able to see, feel and pick up on it. After we’ve undergone our own messes we are given the prospect of being revealed as a new and developed version of ourselves, richer from the lessons we have learned and those around us can sense the change in our energy. Every challenge that we are able to survive and pass through, is not without a purpose or meaning but instead comes with the chance for a ‘spiritual upgrade’. These are stepping stones and a training ground for you to be better positioned for future success. Our misery will often open up our destiny. Humans pursue pleasure and avoid pain. But these messes bear and emit an energy of strength and self-affirmation. This newfound energy will undoubtedly attract new things to us.

It is Already Within 

People are constantly looking outside themselves in an attempt to secure their destiny. Nothing that exists beyond you will ever secure, move or bring forth your destiny. Everything that you need to thrive in this world already exists within you. You are a human being and not a human doing. It is more important to follow your inner compass that it is to ever copy or seek a path because others are seeking it too. Your mess is making you, your trial is teaching you, your hardship is helping you for one purpose alone, and that is to position you for greatness at exactly the right time. To turn your messes into mirrors by building character and constantly adapting your frequency and energy to amplify your being. A butterfly will never see its wings, an apple tree will never taste its fruit and you will never see the full impact that you are having on earth and what enormous purpose is still yet stored inside you. But that doesn’t mean it’s not there.

Exercise 

Take a moment to pause and reflect on the messes that you’ve come out of.

Think of the things that you’ve been able to (given the odds) turn around for the good simply because you decided to.

When you do this practice and keep these findings at the forefront of your mind, you will find that more often than not, your mess is spurring your life into its full and complete destiny, one step at a time.

Next Topic: Connecting to Older and Higher Selves.